• arguing
  • pushing against you and your boundaries
  • friends are more important
  • distant
  • secretive
  • experiments with their identity, who they are and what they like to do
  • may be having sex
  • may not want to be seen in public with you
  • has an interest in the world
  • thinks you don’t know anything
  • misreads emotions
  • wants to make their own decisions
  • their sleep changes

 

what they need…

  • no criticism or judgement
  • to be able to come to you
  • information and communication
  • gentle planning
  • sleep
  • someone to listen

 

what you might need…

  • to remember they are not rejecting you
  • let go of control
  • try not to want influence over you
  • be as calm as possib;e
  • listen to them
  • offload to someone
  • try not to take it personally
  • have you own life